Conservation of stress

WriterMan pointed out to me that we are operating under a conservation of stress. We can apparently only stress effectively about one thing at a time, but there are many items on our Things to Stress about list, so as soon as we resolve one stressful situation, we get only a brief reprieve before we start stressing about the next thing.

First, we were stressing about whether we were going to move. We found out the move is on. Yay!

So then we stressed about finding a place to live. We signed a lease. Yay!

Then we stressed about one of our twins, who had yet to find a job for after graduation and didn't seem to be looking. Then he found a job. Yay!

We are currently stressing about choosing a moving method and date. Driving the moving van ourselves? Filling pods and having them moved? Or tossing frugality to the wind and hiring someone else to do the whole shebang?

Stay tuned for the next episode of Stressing with Minda.

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